D & A

HI, in our previous chat we had explained what we need to think about the YES and the NO . Moreover, we talked about when we retract from saying an explicit NO. You can revert back to out chat here:  Say No, Even without a voice or a gesture. Today, we shall explore more on the NO. But this time we will talk about situation when we don't catch that a NO is needed. This usually happens when we are not fully aware of the situation we are in. This happens when: We don't consider that this subject will affect us We are in the autopilot mode The later is the easier to explain so we shall start chatting about. Do we have an autopilot mode? Yes, And, it is very important to our safety and everyday life in many ways. Many of our reactions to an emergency situation are auto responses as when we press the car brakes, step aside, lower our head or quickly move our hand from a hot surface. If you think about any of these situations you can't really tell how this action was initiated an...

We had being speaking for a while about the forms of communication we practice or encounter in our life from verbal to gesture to feelings. We had also examined broadcasting and direct vs indirect messaging and the communication to living and non living forms in our life. Today we need to find an answer to the question; is there a forced form of communication? Well Yes. And they are many and we deliberately force people to communicate with us and we are forced to communicate to others. In other words, not every communication is running or initiated willingly from both sides. Also, when we are pushed to stop what we are doing and to do something else, that's a forced communication.  But, when we are a part of forced communication? I will give you some examples about the interrogative or detective form: Let we start few or many years ago depending on how many years you were a colleague on the planet earth.We are not all born with the same talkative nature. At home or school we were...

Filters in action. In a previous post , we had seen together how our subconscious mind plays a vital role in sending and receiving messages from the surrounding environment and, being aware of these filters will give us the choice over the communication process whether verbal or visual ones. We had come to an idea of how to tune our receptors by focusing our attention on happiness as an example and our subconscious will be set on a mission to point to it in every situation or point to its absence so we can be alerted. That's how the communication filters are programmed. But are we the sole programmer for our transmitters and receivers. Consciously YES , but are we living the moment 100% of our time that we are fully aware of any interaction with the surrounding environment? Probably if we are like 99% of human beings then there are some program lines that are passed to the software of our mind that serves to tune our thinking process in favor of someone else. That's why man...